just a curious delight
we're just fumbling through the grey, trying find a heart that's not walking away

It looks like Daddy left you with a fear of heights.

myers-briggs personality types

↳ INFJ (The Counselor)

INFJs often appear quiet, caring and sensitive, and may be found listening attentively to someone else’s ideas or concerns. They are highly perceptive about people and want to help others achieve understanding. INFJs are not afraid of complex personal problems; in fact, they are quite complex themselves, and have a rich inner life that few are privy to. They reflect at length on issues of ethics, and feel things deeply. Because Counselors initially appear so gentle and reserved, they may surprise others with their intensity when one of their values is threatened or called into question. Their calm exterior belies the complexity of their inner worlds.

Because INFJs are such complex people, they may be reluctant to engage with others who might not understand or appreciate them, and can thus be hard to get to know. Although they want to get along with others and support them in their goals, they are fiercely loyal to their own system of values and will not follow others down a path that does not feel authentic to them. When they sense that their values are not being respected, or when their intuition tells them that someone’s intentions are not pure, they are likely to withdraw.


  • least common type in the population
  • among highest of all types in college GPA
  • among most likely to stay in college
  • most likely of all types to cope with stress by seeing a therapist
  • highest of all types in marital dissatisfaction
  • personal values include spirituality, learning, and community service
  • commonly found in careers in religion, counseling, teaching, and the arts
  • famous infjs: gandhi, carl jung, eleanor roosevelt, and emily bronte


Jane Austen Books & Films
Emma  audiobook  
Juvenilia - Volume I  audiobook  
Juvenilia - Volume II  
Juvenilia - Volume III  
Lady Susan audiobook  
Mansfield Park audiobook  
Northanger Abbey audiobook  
Persuasion audiobook  
Pride and Prejudice audiobook  
Sense and Sensibility audiobook  
Other Related Books:
A Jane Austen Education by William Deresiewicz  
Austen Takes the South Series by Mary Jane Hathaway  
Behind Jane Austen’s Door by Jennifer Forest  
Confessions of a Jane Austen Addict by Laurie Viera Rigler  
Emma and the Werewolves by Adam Rann/Jane Austen  
Fashion in the Time of Jane Austen by Sarah Jane Downing  
I Was Jane Austen’s Best Friend by Cora Harrison  
Jane Austen: A Life by Claire Tomalin  
Jane Austen Goes to Hollywood by Abby McDonald  
Jane Austen’s Guide to Good Manners by Josephine Ross  
Jane Austen Made Me Do It - edited by Laurel Ann Nattress  
Jane Austen Mystery series by Stephanie Barron  
Jane Austen the Reader: The Artist as Critic by Olivia Murphy  
Matters of Fact in Jane Austen by Janine Barchas  
My Jane Austen Summer: A Season in Mansfield Park by Cindy Jones  
The Jane Austen Guide to Happily Ever After by Elizabeth Kantor  
The Jane Austen Handbook by Margaret C. Sullivan  
The Missing Manuscript of Jane Austen by Syrie James  
The Mysterious Death of Miss Jane Austen by Lindsay Ashford  
The Real Jane Austen by Paula Byrne  
Film/TV Adaptations:
Emma - 1972  
Emma - 1996 - US  
Emma - 1996 - UK  
Mansfield Park - 1983  
Mansfield Park - 1999  
Mansfield Park - 2007  
Northanger Abbey - 1986  
Northanger Abbey - 2007  
Persuasion - 1995  
Persuasion - 2007  
Pride and Prejudice - 1940  
Pride and Prejudice - 1980  
Pride and Prejudice - 1995  
Pride and Prejudice - 2005  
Sense and Sensibility - 1971  
Sense and Sensibility - 1981 - no episode 1  
Sense and Sensibility - 1995  
Sense and Sensibility - 2008  Part 2  Part 3  
Other Related Films:
Austenland - 2013  
Becoming Jane - 2007  
Bride & Prejudice - 2004  
Bridget Jones’s Diary - 2001  
Clueless - 1995  
Emma Approved - 2013-present  
Jane Austen Book Club - 2007  
Lost in Austen - 2008  
Miss Austen Regrets - 2008  
Pride and Prejudice - 2003  
The Lizzie Bennett Diaries - 2012-2013  
Welcome to Sandition- 2013


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